It seems that the one thing that you can count is change. Change for the better, change for the worse, but change none the less. Change is inevitable. We all have our own ways of dealing (or not dealing) with change.
"When the winds of change blow, some people build walls and others build windmills." (Chinese proverb)
Those that build walls tend to view change as happening to them, a victim mentality that causes many to turn bitter. Others look at change as a force to be harnassed. A chance to build and grow, a chance for things to be better.
There is such a small difference between "bitter" and "better". It's "I". I choose my outlook. I choose my action and reaction. I choose whether I put the covers over my head or get up and greet the day to see what great possibilities are blowing in.
Put your finger in the air. Which way is your wind blowing today?